Whenever I feel adrift, I clutch the lifesaver of memories and can’t help but smile. My favorite? Any meal with the people I love and cherish. "So much of what is best in us is bound up in our love of family, that it remains the measure of our [...]
“I think that I will never see A poem lovely as a tree.” I’m crazy about trees. Always have been. As a child, I held a fascination for their strong limbs and green leaves. High above, you can hide from the world. I think I could use a sturdy [...]
For years, I have hoarded quotes on small slips of paper, in journals, and now in a spreadsheet. I find them in articles, books, poems, podcasts, and occasionally, conversations. Something about the shape and formation of words can capture a thought, suspend it in time and place. You can [...]
Bridges intrigue and terrify me. Shivers run down my spine on freeway flyovers that appear to rise into the sky, and you wonder if there is another side beyond the pinnacle. Others hold my attention as I watch the traffic of vehicles or people moving about their day. We’ve [...]
“Go out and play.” That’s what I wanted to hear in the past few days, weeks, well, months. I wanted to let go of being an adult. For just a moment, I longed to forget about the news, responsibilities, and all the pain in the world. Remember when your [...]
I can hear Janis Joplin’s raspy voice as she belts out, “Freedom's just another word for nothin’ left to lose.” I've been thinking about freedom, what we have to lose, and how we can choose to see beyond ourselves. What does it mean to be free? Why do some have [...]
Song lyrics often stick in my brain, refusing to let go of the never-ending loop of melody and words. Like these: You’ve got to give a little, take a little, and let your poor heart break a little. That’s the story of, that’s the glory of love. Billy Hill [...]
In the dark, I stared at the phone. Please don’t ring. We left our small, helpless newborn in the neonatal ICU. He struggled to stay alive with every breath. “The next 48 to 72 hours will be the most critical. If his lungs develop in that time, his prospects [...]
When my children sat in a puddle of tears or pouted over the unfairness of cleaning a mess, I gave them my go-to response: “Where’s your happy face?” I didn’t dismiss their frustration or sadness because I wasn’t compassionate, although they might have disagreed. But because so much [...]
I have a soft spot for birthdays. That day you enter the world, new, soft, and loved. You often hear, “Live each day as if it was your last.” Suleika Jaouad, author, musician, and artist, believes that is terrible advice. As she faced overcoming, more than once, and [...]
