Does age matter? For the past several months, self-pity shrouded my thoughts, convincing me that age did matter. It mattered a lot, and the clock for me was running out of time. I questioned whether starting new writing projects, learning to play the ukelele, stepping out into new adventures [...]
“Did you hear me? I want to know why. How can you keep going day after day as voices spin a web of untruth? Don’t you care? What can we do? I am fearful for the future and what will happen if we continue down this divisive path.” My [...]
No Other Choice I’m confused as I mourn this mountain of hate. Demons seek to capture my hope. I will not condone this evil or ignore love. Breathe the clean air of faith and compassion. Silence the enemy. Listen to the voice of clarity that soothes my soul. I [...]
I needed words to give voice to this thing called love. I wanted the storybook version—the 1960s TV rendition of a family and a dad. I didn’t get that, but I still learned love. The shade from the boxy white station wagon shielded us from the blazing sun. With [...]
Most of us remain confused and silent about love. When we love we can let our hearts speak. —bell hooks I set an intention this year to write and work from a single theme each month. February seemed the perfect time for thinking, writing, and exploring love. My interest [...]
This year, I set bold intentions for my writing, photography, and living well. I’ve spent much of my life in the hustle lane. Along the way, I stressed over deadlines, my role in affecting change in organizations, and balancing my extended family's drama with my own sanity. Stress can [...]
When will I wake up from this nightmare? When the Covid-19 pandemic began in March 0f 2020, little did I realize that we would end that year still masked and isolated from those we love. Many lost more than time and favorite activities. The death toll in the US [...]
It’s time to come out of hiding and face the truth. Perfectionism Protects Perfectionism is a defense mechanism. For years, I viewed my tendency for perfectionism as an asset. Who doesn’t want to do everything with excellence and strive for the best? In reality, perfectionism held me back, blinding [...]
The memories still hung like strands of gossamer, but for how long? I don’t know the exact day and time when she took the first step to leave. Too many other distractions and family drama clouded the scene. Most days, I try not to dwell on the last years [...]
Perspective changes everything. How can we see through the eyes of others? Why would we want to? When I can stop and consider how someone else sees the problem or lack of a problem, the new view can change my perception. Perspective or perception? Let's keep this simple. Basically, [...]
