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I have never accomplished anything entirely on my own. Family, friends, and sometimes people I don’t know played a role in supporting my efforts.

You read stories of how individuals overcame obstacles, pulling themselves by their proverbial “bootstraps.” Yes, we must take the first step and possess some self-motivation.

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No one ever really goes it alone.

When I was going to graduate school, working full-time, and just trying to keep my head above water, I was surrounded by love and support.  My husband cooked dinner for himself and our sons. One son would bring me snacks late at night or on the weekend as I scoured research articles and wrote papers. 

When I was going to graduate school, working full time, and just trying to keep my head above water, I was surrounded by love and support.  My husband cooked dinner for himself or our sons. One son would bring me snacks late at night or on the weekend as I scoured over research articles and wrote papers. 

Friends sent notes of encouragement and hung with me, foregoing lunch and excursions. My daughter, busy with a new baby, never let me forget that my goals mattered. Our youngest son listened as I expounded on some new theory or idea fermenting in my thoughts.

Could I have reached the destination without the guidance of a brilliant professor or classmates who challenged my thinking? Maybe, but each gave me a piece of courage and persistence that smoothed the path.

On graduation day, I may have been the one walking across the stage, but I was never alone. And I am forever grateful.

Who stands by you?

Stand by me, always

So true

“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.”
—e.e. cummings

And always—

Be kind. Be brave. Be you.

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Photos © Kathryn LeRoy
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